Yara Shahidi, Tess Holliday, Dascha Polanco and more attend Refinery 29โs 29rooms, which is back in NYC for a limited run from September 6-15.
This yearโs theme is โExpand Your Reality,โ and of course each of the installments represent Refineryโs core values, imagination, inclusivity, individuality, and impact.
The mission of 29rooms is the following: Rooted in storytelling and self-expression, 29Rooms: Expand Your Reality encourages you to unearth your deepest creative instincts and enter into a new realm of abundant thinking. ย
For the luminaries in attendance, that abundant thinking and submersion into culture and creativity was expressed as each of them were asked, What do you think about when you hear the phrase โExpand Your Reality,โ and how has expanding changed reality for you?
Logan Browning: โWow. Expanding my reality just means to kind of check myself and see if Iโve been limiting myself in any way. Whether thatโs in my work or in my friendships and relationships. [Also] how I dream. I think I can dream much bigger. I think Iโve achieved some amazing things in my life and I really do believe that I can achieve so much more and just being here makes me feel like that.โ

Coco Rocha:โI think that whatever your reality is, itโs pushing it a little further on personal boundaries. My reality is modeling. And how did I push my boundaries? Well, Iโve actually started a model camp. And Iโve been teaching the trade to girls of all sorts of shapes, colors, and sizes at our little camp site. I think that that is my expansion and my reality.โ
Yvonne Orji:โThere was a song that I used to love in church. I think itโs like a childrenโs song [sings] if youโre gonna dream, dream big. I could just go on and on. And I used to love that song because I was like, you are right. Whatโs the point of dreaming dreams that you could totally fulfill in five seconds? Like, itโs actually not a dream but just a wish that you could go do. But a dream that requires assistance from like 20 other people, or something that you canโt even fathom how you would do yourself, or something that stretches you beyond the capacity of what you thought you could do. Like, thatโs a dream! And if youโre going to dream, dream so far that you say โIโm going to fill stadiums. I have no idea right now because I canโt even fill my kitchen, but Iโm going to fill stadiums.โ And like, thatโs a dream that you have to aspire to and work hard for. But itโs so sweet. Itโs so much sweeter when you accomplish it.
So like expanding your reality, dream outside of what you see. Dream outside your comfort zone. Dream outside your neighborhood. Push the layers back. What layers? When you think about [how] somebody created WiFi in the air. Like what? Youโre on the plane and you could text somebody [who is] on the ground. Somebody dreamt that and itโs like, how? Why did they want to text someone from the air? But now weโre not even thinking that. Weโre just thinking, Iโm so glad I can text someone from the air. So itโs like, expand whatโs normal because one day, whatโs not normal [will become] normal tomorrow. And then people canโt live without it. So itโs just fascinating to me ย to look around and say, โthis is what someone dreamt and then did?โ Like how is this rope hanging? [Looks around] So many questions, but I canโt wait to go in and find out. And itโs so cool.โ
Ajiona Alexus: โReality is whatever you want it to be. Itโs your world and you create your own circumstances so never let anyone limit you off of what you think reality should be like because your reality is really your true dreams.โ
Yara Shahidi:ย โExpanding your reality means to educate yourself, not only about5 the very literal things we see in text but to really go past that and learn about our global community. Learn about whatโs happening in the world. And this is a beautiful moment through arts, to do that. To be able to look at different cultures and communities over some time. Moments of the future, past and present, and realize thereโs so much that we donโt know until we embrace it.โ
Dascha Polanco: โI think that expanding your reality is a step outside of what society considers as standards. Itโs to live what truly is your best life, make yourself happy, work on self-love, self-lovery all the time. I think itโs important for us in order to move forward as humanity. We need to embrace, not only the positive and negative, but we need to be able to reach beyond what is considered normal!โ
Tess Holliday: โFor me, expanding my reality means changing peopleโs narrow view of beauty and what that means to them. Especially for marginalized folks and marginalized bodies and we canโt push things forward if we have such a narrow view of what that means. Do you have to expand your reality if beauty because thatโs how things change. Itโs representation and visibility.โ
Zazie Beetz: โI feel itโs important as someone who is creative and tries to sort of always access the spirituality of life. Not in a God sense but in a universe and nature sense, a well-being sense. I think itโs important to remain open and keep your mind curious and engage with the world around you. I think that causes an expansion of self and an expansion of being. And everyday I try to really just approach the world and receive what it gives me and remain open and vulnerable to it. So to me that is an expansion and an expansion of reality.โ



