To emphasize the combat against bullying, TLC hosted their third annual βGive A Littleβ Awards last night at Union Park Events in New York City.
Β In conjunction with Love is Louder β a project of The Jed Foundation, the networkβs ceremony recognizes leaders who raise awareness surrounding the social issue, make a positive impact on the lives of others and promote kindness across the globe. Among this yearβs notable honorees included renown multifaceted thespian Taye Diggs of the CWβs All American, actress and author Skai Jackson, and Whitney Thore, star of TLCβs βMy Big Fat Fabulous Lifeβ.
Also celebrated for making significant efforts in their communities were three national contest winners: Danica Roem (first elected transgender delegate of the Virginia House of Representatives), Barbara Buckley, Angela Varney and Christina Varney (Annieβs Kindness Blankets) and Devin Moore (founder of #RaceToSpeakUp).
The golden carpet shined even brighter with these advocates of love and support, where we spoke with Diggs and Jackson about their experiences of bullying, solutions to the universal plight and upcoming projects.
The Knockturnal: First, congratulations on tonightβs honor. How would you propose the younger generation eradicate bullying?
Taye Diggs: Thatβs tough because younger people donβt really listen to older people, but I think it starts with EMPATHY. I donβt think weβre paying enough attention to the bullies. You know what I mean? I think we need to try to figure out why theyβre doing what theyβre doing because chances are they were bullied themselves. I think we need to take as much care of the bully as we do the people that are being bullied.
The Knockturnal: How important was it for you to join in and crusade against this social issue?
Taye Diggs: Very important. I had personal experience. For a good portion of my young life I was bullied so I can relate to it and its really great to have a platform β Iβll mention this later on tonight β to be able to have an effect and do something about it.
The Knockturnal: If younger Taye Diggs could look a bully in the face today, what would you say to them?
Taye Diggs: What would I say?Β Hmmβ¦ Thatβs tough. Iβd ask him if heβd want to get a bite to eat. (laughs) You know what I mean? Or I would try be understanding.
The Knockturnal: What is one thing you would impart to your child about facing this kind of act?
Taye Diggs: Iβm a single parent and Iβm kind of making this up as I go along. My son heβs a cool kid, and I can tell there are moments where he can probably get caught up and making fun of people since other people are doing it. So, I tell him you can be the guy that can speak up for the child who is being bullied. Thatβs the coolest thing about him.
The Knockturnal: What can expect from the upcoming season of All American?
Taye Diggs: More of the same. We got a lot of drama. The Baker family is trying to pick up the pieces and put it back together. Weβre dealing with the same and even more topical issues β mental health, race, sex, identity β all of that. Community. Itβs far more intense this season.
The Knockturnal: In todayβs social climate, why do you feel this award show is important?
Skai Jackson: I feel this award show is just important because we are honoring people who do great things. I just feel like that is an important thing to do, especially in this generation. Iβm so excited to honored tonight, I think its an amazing thing and it should be great.
The Knockturnal: Youβve gone through your own form of bullying online, what would you tell younger people who face that today?
Skai Jackson: I would say just know it is going to get better. Please tell someone if it is going on, because I feel like a lot of people shy away from doing that. Also, thereβs bullying on social media too, so if are being bullied on social media take a break, you know? Take that two weeks off, do what you need to do to feel better.
The Knockturnal: While experiencing bullying, I know you were attacked for not having certain body enhancements at just 14, what advice would you pass along to women who feel they need to alter their bodies due to societal standards?
Skai Jackson: I would say youβre beautiful no matter what. You donβt need to alter yourself. I mean, if God wanted you to look a certain way, he would have made you like that. So, you shouldnβt put anything foreign in your body to look a certain way and people should know theyβre beautiful no matter what.
The Knockturnal: Whatβs next up for Skai Jackson?
Skai Jackson: I have so many things coming up. I donβt like to tell people exactly what Iβm doing, I like to keep it secret! But just know they are really exciting and I canβt wait!
The event was hosted by Emmy Award-winning journalist and TLC personality Lisa Joyner (βLong Lost Family,β βTaken at Birthβ).